Answers to almost all of your questions
What is Black Tie Optional?
A black-tie-optional dress code means you have the option to wear black-tie attire (an evening gown or a tuxedo) but can instead wear formal attire (a suit or long dress).
Appropriate attire options for a black-tie-optional dress code include full-length gowns, long formal dresses, dressy jumpsuits and pantsuits, tuxedos and suits.
How long is the ceremony?
Around 60 - 70 mins total. Please note this will be a full mass.
Do you need to be Catholic to attend the mass?
We invite all to come and witness our nuptial mass!
I’ve never attended a Catholic mass
We will provide a detailed program that will help keep you on track!
We have also linked two short videos!
When is the RSVP deadline?
Please RSVP by April 1st, 2027.
This helps us finalize with our vendors.
If you forget to RSVP, we will not know to plan for your meal. You are still welcome to witness the ceremony in this case and join us at the After Hours!
What time should I arrive?
Please arrive with enough time to park and find a seat by 1:50pm.
Ceremony will begin at 2:00pm sharp.
If you arrive very early, please be aware that parishioners may be present and praying. Please do not disturb them.
Should I eat lunch before the ceremony?
Though the ceremony is an hour, directly after there will be passed h'ors d’oeuvres during cocktail hour.
At 4:30; seated full course meal will begin.
Please plan according to your appetite.
Note: If you are a practicing Catholic please do not eat 1 hour before receiving the Eucharist.
Can I take communion?
Practicing Catholics in a state of grace are encouraged to partake in the Eucharist.
To all our other guests; we invite you to come up for a blessing by crossing your arms across your chest!
Where should I park?
Please park in either lot on the right of Milam St
Be aware of traffic while crossing the street.
